Hey everyone! Today, I want to share a story that was not exactly part of the plan but ended up being the most beautiful surprise – becoming a mom again at 38, with a few health hurdles thrown in for good measure.
Let’s rewind a bit. It was 2020, the world was in the throes of the pandemic, and lockdowns were the new normal. My life, like everyone else’s, had taken a sharp turn. Work was a whirlwind of virtual meetings, my then-five-year-old son was navigating online school, and the concept of “me-time” was a distant memory. Then, the unexpected news hit – I was pregnant!
Then, surprise! A positive pregnancy test stared back at me. Planned? Absolutely not. But as the initial shock wore off, a wave of excitement washed over me. This tiny human, this unexpected miracle, chose us to be their parents. I have minor thalassemia, a blood condition that can sometimes impact pregnancy. Additionally, I also manage PCOS, which can affect fertility. So, to say we were surprised would be an understatement! But amidst the initial shock, a warmth bloomed in my heart.
The pregnancy itself came with its own set of challenges. Regular doctor visits were crucial to monitor my iron levels due to thalassemia and managing PCOS meant close collaboration with my doctor to ensure a healthy pregnancy. The pandemic added another layer of concern, with limited in-person interactions and heightened anxiety. But throughout it all, the unwavering support of my husband and the excitement in my son’s eyes for a little sibling kept me going.
Juggling work, a curious five-year-old, and a demanding pregnancy was no easy feat. I had to prioritize ruthlessly. Work meetings were scheduled around nap times, evenings were dedicated to quality time with my son, and self-care became a non-negotiable. Thankfully, my employer was incredibly understanding, and my son, bless his heart, surprised me with his patience and newfound sense of responsibility.
Fast forward to today, and my little miracle, a beautiful baby girl, is about to turn three. There is no denying that age 38 threw some curveballs during pregnancy, but the joy she brings to our family is immeasurable.
Now, the question I get asked a lot is – is 38 too old to get pregnant? The answer, honestly, depends entirely on your individual circumstances and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. While there are increased risks associated with pregnancy after 35, modern medicine has come a long way. Modern medicine has come a long way, and healthy pregnancies well into your 40s are becoming increasingly common Open communication with your doctor, a healthy lifestyle, and proactive management of any pre-existing conditions can significantly improve your chances of a healthy pregnancy.
My story is a testament to that. It wasn’t easy, but with careful planning, unwavering support from my family, and a fantastic medical team, I embraced motherhood for the second time, proving that age and health conditions don’t always dictate your journey.
So, to all the mamas out there, especially those contemplating motherhood later in life, this is your sign. Listen to your body, trust your instincts, and don’t be afraid to chase those dreams, even the unexpected ones. You might just be surprised by the beautiful chaos and immense joy that awaits.
